A path splits: which fork do you choose?

in #life7 years ago

With hindsight being 20/20, it's sometimes very interesting to look back to a particular moment, a particular fork in the road as it were and think about how things would be now had you chosen differently. Not with regret (because regret, like jealousy is a useless and poisonous emotion), but simply as an exercise in how easily a single decision can impact your life. Such a moment for me came about a year ago.

image.jpeg

At the time, a few things were happening in my life. I'd finished a graduate degree, had completed a long process that started with a quiet announcement to myself in the night that maybe I wasn't bisexual after all. Maybe I was just gay. And I was planning on traveling to another continent with the funds I'd saved up while working and studying. In addition to all that, I was new to this whole crypto-currency scene. My brother had mentioned it to me - he was just getting really into it at the time and he told me about Ethereum.
"You should buy some," he said.
"Eh, it's like $15 though," I replied.
I bought three.

image.png

Then, I went traveling. I needed the cash I'd saved of course to finance my trip to Colombia and the Galápagos, where I'd spend the next year nearly, working, exploring and meeting generally fascinating people. At some point in my wandering, I got an excited message:
"Your eth is worth $300 a pop, sis :)"
What the hell? I thought. He must have added a 0. Later, when I got home to my place in Galápagos, I checked on it and sat there with a bemused expression.
"What's up," quipped my Ecuadorean best friend.
"My make believe internet money is worth over a thousand dollars," I replied, still bemused.

image.jpeg

It was then I started to really read up and learn about what exactly cryptocurrency is. It was then that I started what I suspect will be a life long love affair with a fascinating branch of technological development and innovation.

Would I have been rich if I'd invested all that money instead of traveling? Yes. I mean not Richie Rich rich but I'd be able to do as I pleased for a while right now. Do I regret not doing so? No. Not for a heartbeat. The places I've seen and people I've met are worth the return on that investment ten times over. And yes, I could have gone later with my crypto-fortune, but then I would not have met the folks I did. I would not have met a person who has become one of my very best friends.

I'll be in the crypto-sphere for a long time to come, I guess. Participating in the tech. Hoping to build my fortune. And if I do? What will I do with it? Travel, of course :)

At the end of the day, the money is just a means to an end. The only part of life no one can ever take from you are the experiences.

Happy Steeming people and good luck with however you choose to invest your time and funding :)
The Wise Fox

images:
1: https://medium.com/personal-growth/the-forked-road-638a2dd10d74
2: https://www.coindesk.com/what-to-know-trading-ethereum/
3:https://busy.org/bitcoin/@driva/best-crypto-memes-will-give-usd10-sbd-to-the-winner

Sort:  

Oh yessss, travel!! relieved to hear your path diverges towards experience over funny numbers in a database :)

There is definitely space in my life for both :D - read about your travels, sounds awesome. I'd love to do a similar sort of 'walking meditation' but I'll do it once I know there's a nice back up fund somewhere for when I get back. Or get bored. Have followed your blog :)

This post has been resteemed from MSP3K courtesy of @isaria from the Minnow Support Project ( @minnowsupport ).

Bots Information:

Join the P.A.L. Discord | Check out MSPSteem | Listen to MSP-Waves

Missed opportunities and accidental successes are a part of life. How we handle both not only defines who we are today, but who we will become.

Thanks for the great post. It reminds me to look for opportunities, but not be defined by them.

Thanks so much :) I think if you simply try to maximize the benefits of opportunities presented to you, you're on the right track. Then all you can do is chill and see what happens right?

Congratulations @holothewise! You have completed some achievement on Steemit and have been rewarded with new badge(s) :

Award for the number of upvotes

Click on any badge to view your own Board of Honor on SteemitBoard.
For more information about SteemitBoard, click here

If you no longer want to receive notifications, reply to this comment with the word STOP

By upvoting this notification, you can help all Steemit users. Learn how here!

I enjoyed your writing and am pleased to note that you appreciate experiences above money even though money helps buy experiences! Each of us are on unique paths and hindsight is, as the cliche states, a wonderful thing. Today I look back at pivotal moments in my life and am able to identify where, exercising my own free will, I made the least beneficial choices to my progress. Recently the spiritual realm made itself known to me and I can see very clearly where I lost my way! That said I am on track now and everything I have experienced along the trail adds to my spice :) As you state no regrets.

I invite and would welcome your thoughts on one of my recent posts: https://steemit.com/spirituality/@ldacey-laforge/hindsight-is-indeed-a-wonderful-thing

Happy trading and travelling.

xox

Thanks so much :) - yours was an interesting read! Fear is indeed what drives most people even if it is just to avoid conflict.

Coin Marketplace

STEEM 0.18
TRX 0.16
JST 0.029
BTC 63566.44
ETH 2483.51
USDT 1.00
SBD 2.67