Rich people gathers money and defeat each other, is just, like we attempt to get high score in video games.

Comparing each other causes we lost. Being different is better, don't be fear of differences. If your parents seemed hates differences and forces you to be ordinary, nothing special, better lie and try to be different. Some parents, including my father, fear of their children being different like energetic extroverts. They just not want their children causes their privacy disturbed, being different causes many people recognize yourself and sometimes if you're famous because it, they wants to tell your parents about yourself. My father is too shy if photo of him, especially photo types like celebs usually shares, being published. Lying is allowed if lying brings the goodness.

I've suffers a bad experience, I didn't get something awesome just I want to imitate my friend. Proof if being different is better than comparing others.