Some reasons why a Girl ask for a space :(

in #life7 years ago (edited)

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What does it mean when a girl wants a space?
Is it because she is tired of the relationship or she no longer LOVES him?

Asking for space is a very difficult decision to make for the girls. In my own point of view confessing without any valid reason is somewhat confusing. How are you going to open up to him? :( You come to realize that having a relationship for a long time becomes a routine. A routine that you can no longer change even if you try to.

Here are some reasons I think why a girl wants space.

First , You no longer have a constant communication . Girls like us wanted to receive messages and calls always but when your BF sends a message once in a while . You will feel neglected .

Second , You can't see his efforts .
Being in a relationship should give and take . Of course , we would like to be a princess some other time if possible but there comes a time that you will be taken for granted . Maybe because he thinks that you will just stay the way you are in the relationship . :( But that's not the case , :( They should have given us more importance if you are in an LDR (long distance relationship) and long term relationship.

Next, both of you always end up fighting or arguing even for small things. I think this is the worst part, the relationship will become toxic if you keep on arguing. Even if you try to talk things properly, but one of you will find some faults to argue again and again.

Girls might hate limitations. We always like hanging out with friends, but you need to ask permission to your boyfriends first. Anyway, it depends on you if you will ask permission or not, but you will feel guilty if you don't. (I think it's much better to be single)

Lastly, You think your relationship is not going anywhere because both of you doesn't have any ambitions or goals. It would be lovely if you can set goals and dream together like for example getting married and savings or something for the future.

In conclusion, What space really means for me.

I need some time to be alone and think things over. It's not that you don't love him, but you just needed space to make your relationship better or she totally lost interest with your relationship. If you can prevent your girlfriend asking a space the better. The important key is to make her happy and cherish her like there is no tomorrow.

What do you think? Do you agree with me? Thank you for reading this post and hope to hear some comments or advice. Have a great day.

Love lots,
@joancabz

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Sometimes u have to distance yourself from a conflicting situation because at times, seeing things from a distance makes u see the reality. And I suppose Space is somehow like that. Cheer up Jo! :)

Oh yes I know ate nyx but so far having space makes me feel happy and independent . I feel like I am having a new routine without someone to lean on .hehe anyway thank u for cheering me up. Love yah 😍😘