Normal Is Gone Forever!
So many people are always complaining about their lives, The country they live in, And everything else.
"America Needs To Be Great Again"
What needs to happen with that?
The problem is, We see a point of history and wish things were like that again.
But with technology and innovation, Things are in a constant state of change. When we sit and wait for these changes to happen, We just set ourselves up for failure.
Act, Now!
When things start to change, It's time to act. Sure, Maybe you'll get lucky, and things will go back to the way they were. But there is still a good chance, That it may never happen. SO adjust your life accordingly. Those who are successful are those who can constantly adapt to changes.
You Don't Have To Have Everything Figured Out
That's the beauty of life, You can make changes when you are unhappy. Often we are on the fence about an important decision. As a result, we wait around to contemplate that choice. Instead of taking action.
Usually, the only way we will find out fully, What we want. Is by taking action and then adjusting to our needs.
Sometimes we don't know every aspect of the decision we are making Until we've already made the decision.
You Don't Have To Be Perfect!
We always seem to think we need to be good, Or in some cases perfect. To get what we want. The problem with that is, It makes us more prone to giving up, Or we get upset when we realize we can't control everything.
Sometimes we just have to take a chance And hope we get it right. Sometimes we can take lots of chances and eventually we will figure out how everything works.
Conclusion
Stop your complaining about how things were, This is how things are now, And there is nothing we can do about it, Except adapt and grow. We can't control everything, and we need to remember that.
I really don't quite get when I see Americans being unhappy with their country, I mean, it is one of the best countries in the world, and tons of people all over the planet would die to live there.
But you are right when saying we are the masters of our destiny. With our thoughts and actions we can change any negative circumstance into a positive one and accomplish pretty much everything we strive for.
It is important to take action, no matter how small it is as long as it help us get where we want. Proper thoughts, attitude and actions are the only things necessary to succeed in the long term, and each 3 of them are controlled by us, not by anyone or anything else.
Cheers :D
Right? I wouldn't know because I haven't traveled much.
Exactly! Tiny actions everyday are what ultimately get us to our goals, And many people don't realize it. Heheh.
Those are words spoken by someone a lot older then yourself. It is good to see change is inevitable in life and you have to adapt or live in misery rehashing the past!
It's better description of life motivation title. Let’s face it, it’s impossible to create your ideal ‘dream life’ if you aren’t sure what it actually looks like. Many people have no idea. So before you do anything else, give yourself some empty time with a blank page to map out what a truly extraordinary life looks like for you.Creating a vision for the future you want provides a compass to guide you forward.Thanks for sharing community.
You can't change most things, but you don't need to. Start making effort to make your life better on a daily basis. Little efforts over a sustained period of time will turn into serious results.
Problem is to often people want instant results. You don't go from a couch potato to running a marathon without first taking your first walk. Then a longer walk, then a walk run, and so forth. Each day you have activity to build up to that goal and it takes an extended period of time and a real commitment.
This is the same with anything worth having in life. Consistent effort to reach a desired goal.
Exactly! "instant results" is a serious problem with people's mentality these days.
Like you said, things take serious commitment.
Society has moved toward thinking everything is an emergency and should be resolved now! Sure a big part of it is that so much is at our fingertips. My kids want to know how big Norway's population is while we were watching the olympics..."OK Google, what is the population of Norway" and instantly they know.
You go on a website to shop and there is a chat option to answer your questions
Want to watch TV, you probably recorded it and didn't even have to care when it actually aired. No thought about changing your day around to see your favorite show season opener...just dvr it.
Our brains are being conditioned towards thinking everything should happen when we want without much effort. It's not the way the real world works...not the part of our lives that leads toward success, love, happiness, health, and wealth.
Scary sometimes thinking how future generations will see things as they have access to more and more things instantly.
Once you have outlined your plan, take action and never look back. Going into action can not guarantee the results. On the road to happiness will be mistakes, rejections and frustrations. But if you do not act, you will never change your situation and continue to be unhappy.
Happiness does not get caught overnight. No matter how hard you are, you have to keep going
Complaining tends to be a coded message you are sending out for someone to care about what you are going through. I find it rarely has much to do with a desire for someone to tell you how to fix it.
You have to develop self-discipline, and think about what you are about to say before you say it. If it is whiny, complainy, or self-pity-ish, then refuse to say it aloud. You can actually change your own mood by forcing yourself to say only positive things.
@kaylinart, This is i very important discussion. Many peoples need to instant result from their activities. But can't accept it. May be long term. We can't take instant success. Its a theory of psycology. It’s easy to live with excuses and justifications about why you can’t do what you want, at least not now. Maybe later. But inaction exacts an increasingly steep toll on our lives. Nothing is a more powerful antidote to fear than action. When you are feeling passionate, brave, focused, purposeful and absolutely determined to achieve a particular outcome, you’re unstoppable.
World is small and life is short...Spread smiles and share peace.
It's quite an age prophecy declared that the situation of this system of thing is subjected to change not even for good but for bad or worse. Now, we all see it, it is visibly seen!
Making the best out of every situation should be our watchword, making complains would only add fuel to fire.
Nice words coming from @kaylinart, You're genius!
Ooh my goodness, you are totally right, but the thing which matters a lot in our life, the word Expectation sometimes it is good for us, but many times it worse for us, people made the relation for getting benefits for us.
Actually, all of these things strongly linked with each other, the change, the expectation, the perfection, the acceptance, all of these surrounding the life, but we should be spent the life with all with forgiveness, i think if we do that, all the happiness become a true part of our life, this is whats in our hand, if we made a strong decision, the sorrow will never come back, its all up to our thinking which must be changed for accepte the change, which is happening every minute.
Thanks for your epic contribution...
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