Stop Being A Victim!
It's like a trend or something; Everyone wants to be offended. Everyone wants to be a victim. What happened to those days where everyone wanted to be the superhero that saved the day? Not the dying, miserable person in the corner who is struggling in every area of their life.
It's not cute or funny!
Note: This post is mostly referred to those that use every hardship they have to drain their lives and make excuses for why they can't do anything.
No One Likes Complainers
This sucks, That sucks. The whole world sucks, Your life sucks!
Everyone can complain all day, We all have SOMETHING to complain about! But at the end of the day, Guess who cares? Nobody. When you complain a ton, You become a negative person. Which most people tend to avoid.
People love problem solvers, Instead of thinking, Dang it sucks my lawn keeps growing back. Instead, come up with solutions! Can you replace it with rocks? Can you pay the neighborhood kid to mow it for you?
Solutions are so much better than mindless complaining.
Your Break Is Not Coming
When we are children, It's so easy to say that “one day I'll be a millionaire. I'll own ten unicorns” and what not.
We spend our lives subconsciously thinking that “break” is coming, The thing that will change our life forever. But here is the problem with that, It's not happening.
No one's going to hand you what you “think” you deserve.
And no matter how long you play the victim card, It's not coming. Get off your butt and do something.
Everyone Has Hardships
Everyone's life sucks. Everyone has had a million bad things happen to them. You aren't special or unique in that sense. Some people got a little luckier than others, Whether they were born in a slightly easier country, Or have the resources to do things.
Bad things don't discriminate. It happens to good and bad people. I'm not saying you should pretend they never affected you, or that you shouldn't' care. But try and beat those “odds.” Overcome the obstacles that life has thrown at you. Instead of thinking “Oh poor me” Think I'll show them/That/It.
You are more robust than they are. #
I see that with people who beat cancer. Despite the horrible experience of cancer, They thrive and try to make a difference. They don't spend all day thinking “Why did it happen to me? “ They kick butt in life.
You can do that too! Be grateful for what you have, And stop being the victim.
Like get up and move on there’s people out there dying , being killed . There’s much more out there than our little worries yet we can’t get over little shit? Everyone has a story and we all go through different things at different times
Right? gosh! We worry about the smallest things.
PREACH IT! This really is a rampant issue in today's society and unfortunately more so amongst most millennials it seems. People equate hard work to some type of slavery...as I always say work smarter not harder. But you will still have to work hard! That's life. We don't get stuff handed to us.
Nearly everyone is easily offended yet complain about a lot of things which provokes ridicule against them and in turn, another set of complaining.
I personally laugh if someone gets offended or complains about something small that doesn't deserve it. ;)
Right? Gosh :( Heheh You should! See? this is why you are amazing. hehe.
Hehe aww thanks, you are pretty amazing yourself. Hehe :)
Fear is the main ingredient of a “victim mentality”, and courage is the primary medicine.
Do not blame yourself either. If something went wrong, focus on how to fix it instead of why it happened. Look at children - when they trip and fall on the playground, they cry for a bit, then just get up and keep playing, instead of blaming themselves for being clumsy.
I love that! I didn't think of it in that way.
I agree Focus on solutions rather than the problem. It helps a lot.
Great comparaison with kids, always looking forward, not backwards!
Everything can be seen as an experience we can learn from, that's what we've been doing since childhood..
There really needs to be more people realizing this and stopping the madness. Kids are being raised less confident? I don't know or understand but it seems everyone thinks it ridiculous and its ONLY the media that puts this kinda thought out there.
This is a very powerful post! Sometimes we just have to hear the truth even when it hurts
I'd like include myself in making myself a winner and not 'the victim'. I don't necessarily believe that everyone's life sucks. We can cultivate an organic community around us that promotes positivity. Let's love life!
I learned all the way back in my early adult years that no one really owes you anything. To boot, one of the worst things anyone can do is walk through life with a the world owes me something kind of an attitude. I have a couple of relatives that have had that kind of attitude and it isn’t a coincidence they’re pretty well the least successful people out of my relatives.
At least I had a good example of what not to become when I was younger.
do whatever want to do in your Life
people always saying something bad about you
don't care about these think because when you success in your life so these appreciate you
Always be fearless that will help you to find out your true potential and there is no risk in life, if you prefer small steps for growing and many more.
After all the content is really very good.
one last thing, according to my opinion- majority of people not become rich because of their less understanding,less thinking powers, and boring habits. if someone have good vision then that person will not take action ( they love to live their life on dream- not reality). This is reality
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