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Honestly I think it is different, it does change things. The day I got married was the likely the best day of my life, if not top 3! It was amazing to have a big party with everyone you knew and loved all there to celebrate and be together. I am in the process of getting divorced atm but I still loved my wedding day.
I didn't really want to get married the first time but he really wanted to so I did it for him. Now I realize that I needed to do it for me not for him. The ending was inevitable really.
How ever the point of my comment on this is to say that having a wife or a husband is a big deal, its saying to the world but more importantly each other I choose you and weather you are religious or not (I am most definitely not) it is a commitment to one another that you hold above anything else.
I find it quite ironic that I completely understand and value marriage more now that I have actually been thought it. When I attend a wedding and hear the vows I now feel the seriousness and the commitment in the words, where at the time it did not have that weight.
Next time... I will choose differently and I will only marry someone if I am over the moon excited to do so. Otherwise I already know the outcome.
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Aww I'm sorry you are going through a divorce, But it seems you learned a lot and next time it will be better! It's definitely something you don't want to mess with. And sometimes I'm grateful for what happened to me. I just wish it happened a bit earlier so I had more time to date around more.
Girl you have all the time in the world!
Don't regret time that has passed, it was never time wasted. You were young and in love and you were having fun, you said you enjoyed your time with him so it was not a waste. Now you can meet someone who has also went through a bit of life and learnt a bit about the world.
As for me don't be sorry about the divorce, it is happening and its fucking hard but its the right direction for both of us I am certain. I will be so happy when it is finally all settled and over with though, that is for sure!