Also - I've started a little unique system within myself. It's strange actually, I don't know if anyone else does it - but with body language I look at the person and think how of how I'd feel if I were standing / looking like that, and I've learned through my wife how she feels and acts - and attributed that to other women. I must say it works.

10 years ago the world was an absolute mystery for me - things that should have came easy, didn't. Now they do. I've learned how to act in the moment - it's always 'with' the person in front of me, or who I'm talking to, never against. It works wonders with business, and working together with someone to solve problems.