Very useful contemplation and reminder, and beautifully said Sabina. Knowing from my praxis it is quite a frequent behaviour by people who let themselves dragged into someone else's confusion, illusions and games. Ocassionally it can happen to almost everyone. The danger is when it becomes a lifestyle. It is never enough to be reminded how devasted it is for the personal growing. Instead to be a main actor in the personal life, one becomes a secondary figure in somebody else's life.
"However, if you prefer spirals...
Be mindful not to get trapped in other people's loops of suffering."
Thank you.