Mhmmm....it is a tough situation.I can't wait to read what did you do...Unfortunately, I cant answer your questions. Its super delicate and we all have different ways of thinking, based on the actual situation, facts, emotions, rules from work, etc. It's subjective....I know you did the right thing, you couldnt do the other way! your heart and mind told you what to do, I'm sure of it! Hugs :(