Great post. The way i hadle situations is to just not let that negative part enter me. I am aware of it being there, but for the most part whats done, is done. Its like crying over an ex or something and then a month later, you are asking yourself, "she wasnt worth crying over". We all do this, so i just look at the positive side and take it as a learning experience, or just make note of it and try to handle what ever it was muc better when it happens again. Stay positive out there people! Life is life.