The final paragraph with all due respect. , was a strange contradiction;

'do We use Our minds' ? Or ..
...'does The Mind use Us' ?

Then.. Define.. who I am, may be dissimilar to Who am I. ?

Are they both not essentially the quality's of our frontal lobe. With the decisions it must make and does so very efficiently.
The easy decisions we make become the ones we make more often. And challenging decisions we tend to unlearn. And then become the procrastinate. Until if you're fortunate enough to realise what you procrastinated to discover.

By, for then, will it be too late ... ?

Mukz...