I know what u are going threw I am atheist in the fact that I don't believe in God or gods created by man I am judge by this daily creates separation and over emotionally brawls I didn't use to use that title cause I also don't believe in definement by titles iam connected to all things in creation and I am very spiritual but to use religion to give me an identity never just do u by knowing what's best for u others views and opinions r Just that be the remarkable ,smart, beautiful, person that u are and enjoy life peace