Confucian Family Ceremony for The Ancestor in My family, Korea

in #life7 years ago (edited)

December 19 was 3rd years aniversary since my dadd had passed away. I can’t believe that my dad does not exist in this world. I still remember his voice, his face and his silly humor…

In Korean family, a special ceremony for the ancestors has been undergoing in the House of Confucian tradition family.
I think Korea is the only country where the Confucian ceremony has been served until now which has been originated from several thousand ago

Buddhist family also has performed this ceremony in Korea.
In some case, Buddhist family is inclined to serve this ceremony more and bigger.

In Catholic family, also this kinds of ceremony is undergoing under the circumstance of any spiritual signal removed.

In Protestant family, this ceremony had been banned from it’s beginning.

My mom is Catholic. This ceremony is very important to her, because she had grown up in Confucian family. Even though she believe in God, the ceremony for ancestors is the most important thing to her.

She is still believing through this ceremony, our ancestors are taking care of us in the Heaven.

She prepared foods by herself for the ceremony.

Photos could show you better than my poor English
The table setting for the ceremony

There is a provided procedure for the ceremony

The ceremony is a kinds of the invitation for the ancestors

With Rice wine and Bow, we need to show our respect to the ancestors.

Last procedure is burning the paper for the invitation of my father.

Burning that paper is as same as saying a good bye to my father's soul.

For long time ago, they really believed in that this paper would invite the soul of family ancestors.

Thank you

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Oh. Cool photo. Thanks for your sharing.

님의 마음처럼 정성스럽게 차려진 제사상이네요.
저는 아버지 기일이면 선산을 찾아갑니다.
거울을 보면 내나이 때의 아버지를 보는 느낌입니다.
세상 사는게 다 그렇지요
다시 볼수 없는 것들을 그리워 하면서....
눈치 안보고 자주 찾아 뵙겠습니다.
영어가 짧아 우리말로 씁니다.

감사합니다.
시간이 갈수록 아버님이 그리워 집니다.
사람이 더 그리워지구요.
세상일 아무것도 아닌 것 같은 생각도 듭니다,

yummy))

Give my greatest respect to your father and your family.May you safe and healthy forever. thanks for sharing.

thank you so much

Fantastic Photos, the clarity is amazing! Very nice post here, Thanks.

This is a fantastic post! Thank you for inviting us to join you for this ceremony, and teaching us a little about the culture and tradition.

Your father's memory will live on forever on the steem blockchain.

My thoughts exactly. What a wonderful post. Respect to your father and ancestors @slowwalker.

thank you so much

Reading your post I think it's really a touching ceremony. From to cook food to the burned paper to say goodby, it's all very touching. I think to know the tradition on how to "remember" our ancestors is one of the most interesting thing in every culture and It's touching for me to see how much love you show for your ancestor.

thank you
but now it is changing now even in korea

nice, i love te'!

Always love and stay with your family guys.
peace and love for you @slowwalker.