RE: Serious Question Moments #667
I believe in healthy debate but would never "argue" with anyone about their beliefs. We all have a different way of looking at the world and varying opinions should be valued because if we were all the same then the world would be a boring place. I tell people that I don't agree with them but that I love them for sharing their perspective with me. I don't believe that anyone has to "win." I always choose to ask questions and listen intently when the person is speaking. Sometimes I will share my own viewpoint and sometimes I won't... merely because I don't particularly like confrontation with others so if I feel they will be hostile if I offer a response then I just don't share my own beliefs with them.
I think this is a good topic to bring up though, I like it.
Ivy
I've played your role 100s of times in my life, but recently I've been considering if I should do something when the belief is toxic. When its extreme, when it can actually cause harm.
I guess that's why im lost in questions.
We always want what's best for anyone that we care about so we want them to see the light, so to speak, when we know a better way. I have found though that when you try to force your will or opinon or knowledge down someone's throat they often rebel. And instead of educating you end up turning them further away. You could try telling them what you know and that you know it to be true and why but I wouldn't force them to accept the information until they are ready to because it may end up damaging the relationship. That's my two cents anyway.
Ivy
Uuhhh i just remembered, I should tell you guys about street epistemology. This is the ninja way...
Lol I would love to hear all about this!
Ivy