Wisdom comes with years - I believe I'm full in a midlife crisis at the moment :D Lol. It feels weird to say it but I believe when I look back at my life later on these are transformative years - not the easiest ones. I hope they result in a better life for me though - I wish you a happy birthday and many more wisdom to collect - and health and happiness!
Thank you, @soyrosa. Very kind of you. :)
It's funny how those mid-life crises work. I don't know that anything was particularly wrong in my case, other than I wasn't meeting my own expectations. I mean, sure, things could have been better in many categories, but they could have also been way worse. I find I've been floating mostly in the middle, and it's not a bad place to be really, as long as you get a little bit of the lows to keep you humble and the highs to make you soldier on, middle's good. :)