RE: How to help your wife through childhood trauma - Real Love NEVER Gives up!
Really great post and to be honest, one I needed to see. I am currently pretty pissed right now because of the very thing you have descibed. This really helped calm me down as I read it. Instead of replaying the actions that hurt me during the lash out, I was able to focus on your words and message. I was really able to feel your love for your wife, which instantly made me focus on the love I have for mine. Thank you! It is not easy to remember that the face your looking at in those moments is the face of pain, hurt, trauma, etc; not the face of her true self. Its even harder to work through these moments when you yourself had a traumatic upbringing. Things have been hard for my wife and I over the years, but we make each other better people at the end of the day and that is really hard to find. Only soul mates in my opinion have the strength to endure. I see that you found yours as I have found mine. Keep up the great work here on steemit my friend. Cheers
Dude this comment really touched me. You have just summed it all up man, im so glad that i made this post when i did so that you could see it...so interesting i am creating a post about synchronicity as you replied..and now this post proves synchronicity is real! and yes, i agree with the soul mates thing, me and my wife consider ourselves Twin Flames...look into that if you haven't very interesting stuff.. i am happy you got something from the post bro, its rough out here, but lets keep building each other up! ..Peace and bliss
I was thinking the same thing about the timing. There is so much content I miss here on Steemit, just because of the volume, but more often then not on this platform I end up seeing the posts I need to see the most. What is really special about Steemit, I think is the connectedness that is within this platform/community that is so organic and not a result of our privacy being stripped from us like other social media sites. Steem on brother, keep the rise of the waters so all fish can swim. Will def check out the twin flames. Peace!
Steem on!