I love my kids to pieces!!! What's important to me as well is not to break who they are... by this I mean that in life (schooling and so on) they try to make them like little sheep, some parents do that to their own kids. Don't break who they really are. That is the best thing you can do for your child. Children need to learn lessons, they need to learn how to be good little people. Manners, respect, love. Then they'll be just fine :) Talking about learning, I need to learn how to use @randowhale so I can give you a little something :) I've over used my vote and need to let it build up a bit :(