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RE: Hacks To Deal With Crappy People
Very good post. One thing I like to use when dealing with people is to
- understand the reason of criticism and not the personal attack it comes with.
It's kind of similar to just stay cool but is very helpful when trying to resolve conflicts.
I LOVE that! It's so true!
not taking everything personally makes a massive difference on your well being. Such a nice comment.
👍very interesting post, great @kaylinart
you are still not answering why you feel justified to go and flag every post i ever made and then to spend the rest of the night instantly flagging anything elese i posted. all because on your post "is online dating good for scocity?" where i commeted "its sad and depressing imo" you then went to my page and flagged all my posts? why? how was your actions that made me start spamming you for answers not trolling? you took my rating down from 37 to 2. why was that ok in your eyes?
You are right @xeroc, criticism is good if it means to reconstruct the person.
True true :)
you are still not answering why you feel justified to go and flag every post i ever made and then to spend the rest of the night instantly flagging anything elese i posted. all because on your post "is online dating good for scocity?" where i commeted "its sad and depressing imo" you then went to my page and flagged all my posts? why? how was your actions that made me start spamming you for answers not trolling? you took my rating down from 37 to 2. why was that ok in your eyes?
A mantra I try to live by: "Always remember people are just doing their best from where they are at." Helps reframe when dealing with "difficult" people.
So true :) I love that mantra
you are still not answering why you feel justified to go and flag every post i ever made and then to spend the rest of the night instantly flagging anything elese i posted. all because on your post "is online dating good for scocity?" where i commeted "its sad and depressing imo" you then went to my page and flagged all my posts? why? how was your actions that made me start spamming you for answers not trolling? you took my rating down from 37 to 2. why was that ok in your eyes?
Absolutely brilliant @xeroc! Most of the time it's not even about you.
@kaylinart, you see? I told you you were the patron saint of hacks :)
Heheh thank you!! I appreciate this :) hehe
you are still not answering why you feel justified to go and flag every post i ever made and then to spend the rest of the night instantly flagging anything elese i posted. all because on your post "is online dating good for scocity?" where i commeted "its sad and depressing imo" you then went to my page and flagged all my posts? why? how was your actions that made me start spamming you for answers not trolling? you took my rating down from 37 to 2. why was that ok in your eyes?