DECISION POWER

There is two kinds of societies in the world one is collective societies and other is individualistic societies so like Pakistan is collective society our parents our colleague do not allow us to make decision of our own choice which I think the most miserable thing. My argument do not leads to disrespect of our parents but in contrast it leads to believe in the ability of decision making power of the relevant person. I want to share someone story as an example, as he was the brilliant student in matric so every one believe that he should choose medical science to pursue his study although it was not his desire because he always dream about to be an electronic engineer but mostly people came to him and use to say that” Doctor bun jao ! zindge ben jay ge pagal”(be a doctor and you are in heaven) but whenever he use to smell the sophisticated smell of tablets he lost his mind. At last emotional black mailing lead him to f.sc (pre-med), though at mental level he was not prepared for the competition so he lost the battle which was lead to the biggest disappointment of his life then in response he take everything in his hand to recover from this illusion of failure. Finally he did two years additional math in just two months and able to get admission in reputable university
I conclude this in way we should give our students a sense of self confidence al least let them decide what they want to do what they love to do so it will be great favor from parents to let them decide that’s could be real decision power