I think we’re all placed in varying degrees of agony and while we do try to compare everyone struggle is unique to them and to them they feel it’s as hard as someone else’s!
Overcoming that agony is life’s biggest mystery and pushing past it is life’s biggest reward! You don’t need to know exactly where you’ll end up you just have to know you want better for yourself and to go after it, however you see is it and do it unrelentingly
If you do the universe slowly starts to shape itself and bend to your will