Three Ways To Become An Interesting Person.

in #listhead8 years ago

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Growing up, I've always wanted to be that fun and interesting person everyone wants to always talk to. I mean it was shitty watching drones of people flock around one guy who was always making them laugh unending. I couldn't ever understand what grip he had on them but I set out to get to the root of the matter.

I had to!

I searched countless times on stuff like "how to be fun", or "how to win friends"; it was stressful and tedious. Little did I know that life didn't have to be that difficult.

After several years of searching and trying, I'm here to present to you the secret recipe that will make everyone think you're interesting even when you don't think you are. In three simple steps, you'll learn how to actually become interesting not just on the surface.

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What do you think mate? I am proof enough that it does. Oh well, you don't really know me but heck I'm behind a computer screen, building this amazing stuff for you. I must be an interesting guy, don't you think?

Okay, now that we've gotten that out of the way, let's dive in!


1. Have A Life

Seriously, get a life!

I mean, would you rather talk about other people all the time? I for one wouldn't look forward to talking to you ever again if all you tell me are gist I can pick up from gossip blogs. You should have something interesting about yourself that will intrigue me and keep me longing for more.

Taking a conscious effort to live an interesting life will be of greater benefit to you than practicing a few dry jokes before every conversation. Fake! That's all it irks of!

2. Always Listen

Yes! Shut the hell up and listen. If you've got a nice smile, add that! If you don't have a nice smile, go learn how to smile! You might think it doesn't make sense to not talk when you want people to find you interesting but fact is, everyone wants to talk about themselves and if you can give them that chance, they'll love you forever.

Listening doesn't mean you have nothing to say tho. Remember you are already living an interesting life and you could just chip in a few things about your last experience at the bank or the mall or in the bus.

3. Be Brief

Now it's your turn to talk, don't take forever! Conversation is a turn by turn game! You don't get to have all the turns!

You are not allowed to bore anyone with your unending stories or gist. The key, like I mentioned earlier, is to get me intrigued and hungry for me. That excitement in me is what makes me think the conversation is actually very fun and probably the best I've ever had. When you pour out everything at a go, there's nothing for me to yearn after. You get the gist?


Can you now see that these are very simple steps that even you can follow? Put this to practice and in no time, you'll be that interesting person everyone wants to talk to.


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