Is it easier to love:;or hate?

Hey friends, how you doing? Well!! I guess probably all are good!!
I have learned from different books that hate is difficult , and love is easy , isn't!? Hate is like lugging a stone around .and like an eternal flame 🔥 inside you ,consuming you from within, like maggots under your skin, the analogies are endless , and you feel tired when you hate someone but you feel happy and obliged when you are in love or love someone, .But i have a antithetical view , it is difficult to love .what do you say?????

By love i dont wanna mean lip- service love or valentines day love,as you might be thinking 🤔Valentines day is near and preparing yourself for it!! I am divulging about pure love , unadulterated love, it is even said that one does not love anyone more than one's own self . Be as it may ,love is a difficult brute, when you love, you are expected to forgive and endure ,to forget, to share , to sacrifice!!!and many more ....,,is all that supposed to be easy task !!!literally not!! One of my friend @medha said that We can't fall in love easily with someone but we hate a person for very small reasons!! Adoration for her view , and @imbsnt said that we should not love people by their color or fairness , we should love them by their content,
Coming back to where I started is it easier to love or hate??both require the same effort, I think but the difference is the outcome and our attitude, why climb a mountain to look down upon a garbage dump????climb mountains which offer you endless love, joy and multitudinous vistas , and the opportunity to look into 👀 yourself ,,while you chew on that let me wish you a happy new year ❤️May you have a elegant new year