Deep talk
Core truth

We tend to condemn in others what we permit in ourselves. Relationships has become a permissive platform for professional prostitution, where as long as the pay comes, you can have sex.

Anyway, i am of the opinion of one solution to it..

If it will not end in marriage, no sex. If you can't put a ring on it, forget getting within the fleshy folds between her thighs. If both parties wont just look beyond sex and think of how to build together, forget the bodily pleasure.
#MyOpinionTho