The Studio/Dress/Makeup Korean Wedding Package

in #love7 years ago (edited)

The Most Significant Coupon


While I (and by “I” I mean 99% my wife) was preparing for the recent wedding celebration, my wife and I of course got to learn a great deal of the wedding industry and in particular, the differences between American and Korean norms and practices. Since we only had about a month after landing in Korea before the big event, we did a bit of research of what would be most efficient - preparing the bulk in New York or trying to squeeze it in Korea right upon arrival.

Luckily we were able to hand most major purchases and arrangements before the flight but I wanted to share one key little practice of Korea that we learned about while taking everything into consideration - the Studio Dress Makeup package. Called 스드메//“ShDhMeh” by taking the first Korean syllable of each word, the Studio Dress Makeup package is apparently a staple of wedding prep. Simply summarized, it’s a financial and planning deal where all 3 are handled in one go.

  • package options | Source: Com Wed

These are just examples and they only cover some of the basics. Brides and grooms to-be can opt into a never ending list of options that go from smart budgeting to astronomically luxuriant. These can include the basics of photo/dress/makeup and even go on to include perks like botox shots and specialized massages, directed to slim that waistline and shrink that face before the big day.

3 Birds with 1 Stone


But why? Who cares? Why not just take the initiative and take care of each separately? There are a variety of actual and potential reasons but it all boils down to simple consolidation. Weddings are expensive (no surprise) and there are particular reasons why Koreans are especially motivated to cram all the necessities together.

1_ Cost. Each of these things separately are particularly costly in Korea. Taking just a dress for example - besides the cost of the dress itself, Dress shops charge an extra ~100USD for each try. Every time you’re interested in a garment, you cough up a Benjamin. I know.

2_ Style. If you’ve ever purposely decorated the interior of a home, you know that’s it’s very difficult to coordinate the couch with the rug with the TV stand to the framed pictures to the coffee table books. (I’ve actually never done this but I’d imagine it’s pretty tough). Trying to coordinate a style between dress, make-up, and photographer can be a daunting task.

3_ Mental sanity. For most people in Korea, the wedding just may be the most important day of their lives. The pressure is enormous and many cave to the innumerable whims of others. With the widespread agony, the great opportunity for Studio Dress Makeup coordinators came into existence.

At it makes sense in such a strange way. This is probably the most expensive affair for any young (and even older) people, why not apply cost-saving commercial sensibility to the prep?

Crisis Averted


To be honest, I praise The Lord that I didn’t have to deal with this microcosm of madness. I like bootstrapping things and even though most decisions for venue, flowers, invitations, processions, after-programming, family events, exchanging of gifts, and dozens of other factors that are completely unknown were ultimately not up to me and handled by my then-fiance', I like the idea that this whole event was done with our 'collective' choices injected into each aspect. Being dragged around from venue to venue, being offered packaged deals like a paying amateur model didn't seem very appealing to me.

Nonetheless, this stuff really exists. So if you're ever stressed out in preparation for your big day, consider buying a little package and having everything handled in Korea!

Steem on lovebirds!

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I like your post, very good post maybe other people also like it, the picture is also very good, because I like to read about something new in my life, hopefully the next post is better, thanks .. :)

스!드!메!
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그것은 저의 와이프가 다 핸들해서, 저는 1%정도 경험했습니다. 그 1%도 영혼이 조금 녹았습니다.

Very similar practice in Japan. They even have those for coming of age day, and some are also connected with the venues... But then many choose for a ceremony abroad to actually save money :)

Oooh that's super interesting. I didn't know Japan had a "age of majority" day!

Arigato @fukako!

사실.. 한국의 결혼문화가 크게 보기좋게의 의미로 많이 자리 잡은것같아요. 저렇게 큰 가격에 비해 정작 결혼식 자체는 3시간안에 모든게 끝나니 아까울수도 있지만 반대로 세세한 모든걸 신랑신부가 궅이 신경쓰지 않아도 된다는 장점이 있는것같아요. 요즘엔 소규모의 신랑신부가 직접 준비하는 예식도 유행이라는데. 저도 새로운 유행에 동감해요. 저는 영국에서 결혼했기에 모든부분일 제가 일일이 다 관여해야되서 여간 신경쓸일이 많았는데 대신 큰 비용들지 않고 해서..양쪽다 장단점이 다 있는것같아요. 결혼식전에 전 스트레스받아 그냥 시티홀가서 결혼식만 할까 생각도 했답니다 ㅎㅎ 한식님도 또 아내분도 고생많이 하셨네요 ^^

저희도 스트레스 덕분에 비슷한 생각을 몇번 했습니다. 몇 가지 생략 있었습니다. 그래도 좀 힘들었지만 끝나니 의미가 있었습니다. 고맙습니다.

안녕하세요 ㅎㅎㅎ 일주일차 뉴비에욥^^ 저는 여행 먹방 일상 위주로 글을 쓰고있어요ㅠㅋㅋㅋ아직 새내기라..잘 모르는게 많구요 ㅋㅋ 팔로우 신청했는데 괜찮으시면 맞팔해요:)

안녕하세요 효리 님. 고맙습니다. 또 뵙겠습니다.

Love those shootings, and the combo looks great! Long time making Photo production for Fashion business so using light is one of my favourite hobbys... as G-Dragon ex-fan hahaha this esthetics just drive me crazy.

Haha everyone just wants to be a K-pop superstar...

스튜디오 드레이스 메이크업 패키지 풀이네요!!

결혼 준비 시작 중요한 세가지 인거 같습니다. ㅎ

So sweet.... 😄😊

Hehe the sweetest...

"안녕하세요^^hansikhouse님 즐거운주말밤 보내시고계신가요~ 오늘은 늦은밤 댓글남기네요~ 영어가 너무 많아서 잘 모르겠어요 ㅠㅠㅠ
저는 오늘 구세군을 돕기위한 길거리 버스킹을 했답니다. 처음으로 영상도 올려놨으니 심심하실때 한번 보고가세요~
즐거운밤 되시고 연휴 잘보내세요^^"

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