Make Each Other Happy II.
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Generosity makes a marriage easy and wonderful. Be generous in loving, in giving, in expressing your affection and care too. Never try to be manipulative because when you do, you have lot the whole essence of caring. Don't be like the swine. A swine never appreciates anything good, more so a pearl.
You need to make adequate effort in making your spouse happy. If you need to go out of your way to do that, please do. Their happiness should be of utmost importance to you and it helps you in focusing less on yourself. Selfishness, manipulation and insensitiveness can ruin any relationship. If you don't appreciate the efforts from your partner, then you have shut the door for future ones. Your partner should never be exploited. If you start seeing your partner from that stand point of view of being exploited, then no effort can be appreciated.
Perfect combinations are rare. Someone might meet your physical criteria and you might have different ideals. You both might have the same ideals and distance might be a barrier. You also might have the same view of life but culture might play its part too and just when you feel you both have the best combination, maybe social standards would play it's part too. So when that person comes right away and you guys fit everywhere, then you should be able to pamper each other and ofcourse try everything possible to make each other happy.
Once you come to realise wonderful relationships are miracles of life, you will cherish who you have, not just what you have. - Leke Alder
Don't get it wrong, no one is perfect. You have to work through it and when your motivation is to make your partner happy, ego gives way. Commitment to make each other happy should be a priority and it keeps busy bodies away. Marriage or a strong relationship for that matter, is a private party for two.
Go out of your way to make your spouse happy.
Thank you for your time.
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Beautiful piece sir. This note reminds me of your post about giving and sharing
Selflessness must be the only rule
Selfishness must be dead n buried.
Manipulation must not have the slightest space.
Someone once said and i quote: I'ld rather have a cheat than a manipulative spouse.
Even though neither is good for me vut it goes to show on a manageable/preferential scale, cheating can be dealt with. See its very simple, If anything ever got you attracted or caught your fancy, look on that phenomenon always, mame it count and never let anything kill the vibe.
Thanks @olawalium for blessing the marriage subject with this beautiful piece. Cheers.
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Anyone that is waiting to meet someone that is going to meet all his/her standards isn't ready for a relationship. Perfect combiniation is not just rare but not in existence. Any couple you see living very well like they are perfect combination are that way because they choose to love, accept and work on themselves and each other for the good of the relationship. Both partners must be willing to give each other everything if they want to enjoy relationship bliss
Beautiful...absolutely beautiful. A lot of couples we see around have worked so hard to make things work for them. We only see the result and not the hard work put in. Many want the result they are seeing by not working on their relationship. Love is tender and we need to treat each other with love and respect. It goes a long way.
Thanks a lot.