The Biggest Misconception Ordinary People Have About Making Money Online——普通人对网络赚钱最大的误解:不是你不够努力,而是你一开始就想错了方向

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相信很多和我一样的普通人都会有过类似的经历:

看过无数“网络赚钱”的案例,收藏了一堆教程,关注了很多成功博主,却始终无法在自己身上复现同样的结果。于是慢慢开始怀疑——是不是自己真的不适合网络赚钱。

我曾经也是其中一员。

后来我发现,问题并不在于我不够努力,而在于我对“网络赚钱”这件事,本身就存在一些根本性的误解。

误解一:把网络赚钱当成“短期暴利机会”
一开始,我对网络赚钱的期待,其实非常典型:单纯希望能找到一个“看起来很快就能见效”的项目。于是我尝试过一些流行的方向,比如那些网络上吹嘘的“抖音 0 粉月入过万”、写小说赚钱等。它们都有一个共同点:听起来门槛不高,回报却很快。

但现实是,我在这些事情上投入了不少时间,却几乎没有得到任何实质性结果。

真正让我开始反思的,是我后来长期关注的一些 YouTube 科普博主和网络营销博主。

我发现,在我刚关注他们的时候,他们的粉丝其实并不多,内容也并不“爆”。但五年过去,他们不仅建立了清晰的个人品牌,粉丝最期待的也是每天收看他们的新视频,有些甚至已经成立了自己的公司。那一刻我也终于意识到一件我不得不正视的事情:网络赚钱从来不是一个短期机会,而是一条被时间筛选过的路径。

如果你只用“能不能很快赚钱”去衡量它,大概率会在最不该放弃的时候选择离场。

误解二:以为“方法”比“能力”更重要

在很长一段时间里,我把希望寄托在“方法”上。只要听说什么能赚钱,我就去报班学习,然后按照他的方法去拍视频,做账号,可以说这几年我学过很多课程、看过大量教程,也收集过模板和流程。但真正轮到自己开始做时,却常常无从下手。我反复陷入一种困惑:为什么别人照着这些方法能做成,而我却不行?

真正的转折点,来自我在硕士课程中系统学习了一门关于“用户思维”的课程。教授在课堂上讲到了你的产品需要考虑用户真正需要什么?那时我才第一次意识到一个残酷但清晰的事实:我之所以一直做不好,并不是因为我不努力,而是因为我一直站在“我”的角度思考问题。

一直以来,我关注的是我想写什么?我擅长什么?我觉得这样写很好。却很少真正思考用户真正的需求是什么?他们为什么要花时间看我的内容?我的输出是否为他人创造了价值?

当我开始理解“用户视角”之后,很多过去模糊的挫败感,终于有了合理的解释。这让我明白,网络赚钱真正考验的,并不是你掌握了多少方法,而是你是否具备可持续输出价值的能力

误解三:低估了普通人长期坚持的难度与价值

在六年前我决定做学习博主的时候,我每天都坚持拍摄,然后晚上花2小时剪辑视频,发布。可是渐渐地,我发现这些视频的拍摄,并没有让我从中得到成长和能力,反而因为每天必须花费2小时或是更多的时间剪辑视频,而在拍摄的过程中,我时常不知道拍什么,不知道写什么内容而迷茫。虽然平台粉丝也确实在我不断努力下达到了1000粉,同时我也因为要拍摄素材而学习看了很多书。
我并不是没有坚持过。恰恰相反,我放弃过的一些平台和方向,并不是因为懒,而是因为——越做越迷茫,越做越找不到热爱的感觉。

没有反馈、没有确定感,很容易让人开始怀疑:是不是自己走错了路?

后来我才明白,长期坚持真正难的,并不是时间本身,而是在很长一段时间里看不到回报,却依然愿意继续输出。而这件事,恰恰是普通人最容易低估、却最有价值的地方。

很多能在网络上跑出来的人,并不是一开始就比别人聪明,而是他们愿意在“无人关注”的阶段,持续把事情做好。

写在最后:给普通人的一点温和鼓励

如果你正在尝试网络赚钱,却感到迷茫、迟疑,甚至怀疑自己,我想说一句真诚的话:网络赚钱不是聪明人的游戏,而是一种长期能力积累的结果,也是一段个人成长的副产品。

它不会因为你学会了一个方法就立刻给你回报,但会在你持续输出、不断校准方向的过程中,慢慢显现价值。你不需要一开始就想清楚“怎么赚到钱”,你只需要先想明白:你是否愿意为他人持续创造价值,并给自己时间。

对普通人来说,这已经是一条足够可靠的路径。


The Biggest Misconception Ordinary People Have About Making Money Online : It’s Not That You’re Not Good Enough — You Just Started With the Wrong Expectations

For a long time, I believed that making money online simply wasn’t for people like me.

I watched others succeed, followed countless creators, saved tutorials, bought courses, and tried to “do everything right.” Yet nothing seemed to work. Eventually, I began to wonder whether I was missing some talent others had—or whether I simply wasn’t built for this world at all.

It took me years to realize the truth:
The problem was never a lack of effort.
The problem was that I fundamentally misunderstood what making money online actually is.

Misconception #1: Making Money Online Is a Short-Term Opportunity

Like many ordinary people, I started with the hope that there was a “fast track.”

I tried projects that promised quick results—things like “zero followers, thousands per month on short video platforms” or writing online fiction for income. On the surface, they all looked simple, accessible, and efficient.

In reality, I invested a lot of time and walked away with almost nothing.

The real shift happened when I looked closely at creators I had followed for years—science communicators and digital marketing educators on YouTube. When I first discovered them, their channels were small. Their content wasn’t viral. They weren’t famous.

Five years later, many of them had built strong personal brands. Some had even founded their own companies.

That was when it finally clicked:
Making money online is rarely fast. It’s cumulative.

Most people don’t fail because they lack ability—they fail because they expect short-term returns from something that only works long-term.

Misconception #2: The Method Matters More Than the Ability

I used to believe that if I just found the right method, everything would fall into place.

So I learned relentlessly—courses, frameworks, templates, step-by-step guides. But when it came time to actually create something, I froze. I couldn’t execute. And the most frustrating thought kept coming back:

“If others can do this using the same method, why can’t I?”

The turning point came during my master’s program, when I took a course focused on user thinking.

For the first time, I clearly understood what had been holding me back:
I was always starting from myself.

What I wanted to say.
What I found interesting.
What felt meaningful to me.

I rarely asked the harder questions:
What does the audience actually need?
Why would someone spend time on this?
What value am I creating for others?

Once I began shifting my perspective from creator-centered to user-centered, many of my past failures suddenly made sense.

Online income doesn’t reward people who merely follow methods.
It rewards those who develop transferable abilities—understanding users, communicating clearly, and delivering consistent value.

Misconception #3: Underestimating How Hard Long-Term Consistency Really Is

Six years ago, when I decided to become a learning-focused content creator, I was deeply committed to consistency.

I filmed every single day. Every night, I spent at least two hours editing and publishing my videos. At first, this routine felt disciplined and meaningful. Over time, however, I began to notice something uncomfortable.

The process wasn’t helping me grow.
It wasn’t strengthening any transferable skills.

Instead, I found myself trapped in a cycle of production. I spent hours editing simply because I had to. When it came time to film, I often didn’t know what to talk about or what ideas were worth sharing. The confusion slowly replaced the initial motivation.

Objectively speaking, the effort wasn’t pointless. My audience gradually grew to around 1,000 followers, and in order to keep producing content, I read a large number of books for material. But internally, I felt stuck—busy, yet directionless.

I didn’t quit because I was lazy.

I quit because I felt lost.

Many times, I walked away from platforms and ideas not because they were difficult, but because they became emotionally exhausting. There was no feedback, no validation, and no clear signal that I was on the right path.

What I’ve learned since is this: The hardest part of consistency isn’t time—it’s uncertainty.

Making money online often means creating in silence for a long time. It means producing value before anyone notices. And for ordinary people, that lack of immediate feedback can be deeply discouraging.

Ironically, this is also where our greatest advantage lies.
Most people don’t fail because they’re incapable—they fail because they leave just before momentum has a chance to form.

A Gentle Reminder for Ordinary People

If you’re feeling confused, discouraged, or quietly doubting yourself, here’s what I wish someone had told me earlier:

Making money online is not a shortcut.
It’s a long-term skill-building process—and often a byproduct of personal growth.

You don’t need to have everything figured out.
You don’t need a perfect niche or a flawless plan.

What you do need is a willingness to create value for others, to adjust your perspective, and to give yourself time.

For ordinary people, that mindset alone already puts you further ahead than you think.


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