Agree! I'm old now and as I look back on my youth I think it best to have at least 3 relationships before even contemplating anything permanent. Not only this, but never, never have unprotected sex. Furthermore Guys, having worked in social services with teenage troubled females I know for a fact that troubled youth see the opposite sex as their meal ticket to safety/security. Do not face that Pastor with a bun in the oven! Children deserve two, loving, mature parents. Too often a kid is used as a door opener to WELFARE. Just be smart...life is NEVER easy no matter how much dough one has. Stay under cover...always, always...or get a preliminary to sex-- signed waiver-- from fatherhood responsibilities if pregnancy occurs. Sex is good while it lasts...parenthood lasts until death. Sorry to be so blunt...but we are all stupid when young...only because most of us are always too impulsive...and we don't stop to think. And to the young women here...get skills and training so you can always take care of yourself.