@olawalium sir!
You article is on a very sensitive issue, which is in the form of sarcasm on the prevailing deal in society. Those who understand marriage arrangements to create a child boy. We should not look at women with such inferiority. He is also entitled to respect, he also has personal problems.It is not appropriate to bring a second wife for the desire to create a boy, because there can not be love here. This is a compromise in a way. After receiving the child, the value of the wife will be zero because the person will give his love to the child.My personal opinion is that if we take steps for marriage, then keep respect and love towards each other for life. Whether it is a child or not, is not satisfied with the sexual life, and do not think about bringing a second wife. If you always think, it is not a marriage but a deal that is set for the physical needs and personal benefits. .