I never got married so far. It kind of was not on my priority list... I am quite independent type of person and I had a child relatively early in life...with 25. Broke up with my partner soon after that (after 7 years)...Now, 11 years later, I feel ready for a relationship but marriage...I’m actually quite indeferent about it :D
I agree with you - I don’t really care about diamonds or the big party...though house by the sea would be nice ;)