It is a union between two hearts and indeed we should stop living according to the dictates of the society. We need to do what's best for us because as you have rightly said, one wrong step can bring our worlds crashing down while depriving us from fulfilling destiny. So many people have lost their dreams just because of that wrong step, which is why we need to be careful and take as much time as we can in deciding whom to spend our lives with.

Always good to hear from you, my friend.