Of the nine most difficult items lost in the world, one will always torture you!

I have to admit that most of the time our "tidy up" is done effortlessly, far from challenging the nerve we are most tangled with, the really hard homework comes from something else-

We may never think about throwing it away, or, after trying it countless times, we still ca n’t get it.

It's also possible: we finally learned to say goodbye to them, but in a way that wept and lost our voices ... these are the roots of our obsession

The day when we can calmly face them and make decisive choices, can we be regarded as freeing ourselves from the control of objects and becoming our own masters.
No.1 read half the book

Unread books will be read one day, but that day will never come; half of them are read, and only half of them are really read; the moment you meet this book is the time to read. Throwing away a book is not the same as throwing away knowledge, and even leaving a book at home does not mean that you have knowledge.

No.2 Rag dolls no one wants to touch

"Looking into their eyes, I always feel unbearable. They are also alive. How can they be lost?"

If they really have life, then the fate of being thrown in the corner will make them even more heartbroken. Cover his eyes with cloth before the treatment, then say: thank you for your company, goodbye.

No.3 clothes worn when thin

"Why can't you put in good clothes now? I thought about throwing them out, but feel like you will lose weight in the future?"

Unless you already have a specific weight-loss plan and are starting to implement it, "in case of weight loss" is really only one in 10,000. Even if this one-thousandth is really there, shouldn't you reward yourself with some more beautiful, newer clothes?

No.4 wedding photo series

"Of course when you take photos, you feel that the more you have, the better. As a result, various posters occupy too much space. Such private things cannot be thrown away directly, nor can they be cut or destroyed."

You must be more cautious when buying things that you can't throw away. Take more pictures and keep fewer physical objects. The ritual of love is important, but don't become a burden in the days to come.

No.5 Disliked Gift

"A friend's gift is not liked or used. Dispose of it? Isn't it a disappointment to a friend?"

A truly attentive friend won't give you something you don't like and don't need. Most of the time this kind of gift is just polite, and you must have already given back a thank you, or gift of equal value as a polite response. How can we live up to it?

No.6 Baby Pictures

Since you have a child, the photos in your phone or computer can't be controlled. If you want to delete them, you will feel that every one of your children is worth collecting.

Suppose someone suddenly wants to see your baby's growth story. Can you quickly find the most lovely, interesting and memorable photos? If the number of photos left makes you unable to complete this task, then the screening work is imminent.
No.7 Free gift when shopping

Free stuff is actually expensive. It does not require you to spend money, but it will take up your space, waste your time, consume your attention, and even lower your standard of living.

No.8 left by his ex ...

The things left to me represent everything that was once beautiful between us, how a pity to throw them away.

The idea of ​​"a pity" is not wrong in itself, but it is meaningless. It cannot be "given" when left behind, and there is no "pity" left. -Just like he and you.

No.9 Relic's Relic

"If you don't have these items, it means that I have forgotten. I don't want to forget, nor should I."

This is a heavy scene that everyone can't avoid.

In addition to the memories and feelings that are difficult to give up, perhaps we don't even want to face it--would it be sad if the person who passed away knew that we threw away his belongings?

It's not terrible to leave, terrible is that from now on, everything about this world and him has disappeared.

Let's make a hypothesis: What if we changed ourselves?

I think I must hope that my loved ones don't keep indulging in nostalgia and pain, and go out as soon as possible.

"I love you, but I can no longer return your love.

So just leave me a small treasure corner in my heart.

Then please let go of everything and easily continue your own life ... "

It must be so, right?

Returning to your eyes, where are these disturbing items, where should each go, the answer is already in your heart.