RE: The Words We Choose and the Words We Use
Hi, phoenix32. I would like to understand that all this narrative is fiction to help those who need it. Because if not, then there is an incredible couple problem.
"Words can hurt, words can offend and words can cause cracks, some of them irreparable" ... This is a truth the size of a cathedral! because the words come out of one, they leave the head, they leave the thought. So "without intention" words are a source of power.
In a relationship between two people there must be love, trust, respect for differences, tolerance. If these ingredients come together we will have a happy and stable marriage that will never hurt with words because everyone takes care of the other. Cordial greetings and thanks for this thoughtful publication about our human relationships
Oh, how I wish it was fiction. The problem, really, stemmed from two problems: and the only commonality was me and allowing myself to be blinded to the reality of these women. Had I been open to who they really were, then the relationships would not have gotten off the ground and I would've avoided most of these problems. Of course, there is the other factor: people tend to put up a front when a relationship (of any kind) is new, so by the time the other person's real self is exposed, you're already deeply invested in the relationship and it is hard to back out or end it. Thanks for the praise and thank you for reading!