Yes, that's true, but from the opinions of people, from the outside looking in, there seems to be a clear line of "right" & "wrong".
It could be a matter of perspective, we all can't see clearly at times, it just takes a ribbing from a friend, a wise comment, getting out of your normal routine... Family members, officials and others, passing judgement upon what "shoulda" or "coulda" been done in hindsight.

I've gotten into hot water crossing the line with some of my helpful comments when I was younger.
I'm alot more subtle and alot more self aware of the ups & downs in life - but I still feel duty bound to help within reason.

Is it the Chaos theory that all possibilities that appear randkm, are not. Spectrums in all things.