Want to pacaran or get married?

Hello steemians friend ...

Has it ever been in your life to do this one thing "dating"?
Most of you have been in a relationship with the opposite sex for some reason. But among teenagers, especially in today's era, if someone is not dating is considered not boy lho among friends all guys. But there is also the hell if that does not dating it even more gentel man than the child who is dating. Right?
Ayoo honest answer ..,
Talking about dating, what exactly do you expect from it all, what want to always be the attention of your lover, what want to have always pay attention to you, what want to always accompany you wherever you go or what ... ??
Honestly yes ..., if I still as a normal human yes it is natural to have a desire for it all, who does not want to be loved by girls, can the attention of girls and so forth.
But it will not be all of you, do you? Because the courtship is only a blessing for a moment but the suffering of a lifetime even to the Hereafter will be prosecuted if you ever wrong in dating and sin.
Because most people who dating is broken relationship, how not to break because their relationship is not yet official. And there is only disappointed, hurt and miserable left by the lover.
What keeps happening forever is that what?
The only one answer is "NIKAH". Why marriage, it's expensive wedding expenses, nothing should be prepared first, not yet maharnya, the cost of this lease, that, just all money.
Well, it turns out that whatever is done and sacrificed in the beginning of the past must finally be something beautiful, memorable and fun.
Now you just choose it, want an instant all-round but the result is miserable and disappointed for life (courtship) or want to choose who must have capital first then can be legitimate and happy results (marriage).
Now just choose your choice, but if a real man must choose to marry, because it is obviously his right, his ownership, his letters and others.
Come to his house and ask his parents to be allowed to marry his daughter.
Hopefully the courts are fast breaking yes, and continue to marriage.

By @rakanfatah