An Unfulfilled Life is an Unfinished One...

in #mindset6 years ago

Hello again, dear Steemians!

I have seen people from time to time with a right mindset and outlook towards life; people who apparently had it all figured out. They knew what they wanted to do with their life and they actually took steps to achieve their goals.

But some of these people did not have happiness or contentment. It was as if all the purpose and meaning in the world could not give them tranquility and peace of mind.

What do this kind of people do wrong?


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Let me tell you a story about someone who knew everything and wanted to do everything. Little did he know that our time in life is limited and we cannot blithely plan our moves and execute them perfectly.

An unfulfilled life is usually an unfinished one. Some people are in the habit of starting something with energy and enthusiasm, but they can never bring themselves to finish it.

After years go by and we grow old and pale, there will only be one regret with us, the feeling that we haven’t been able to finish anything we have started and see the effects of it on the world or the people around us.


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The person I told you about earlier decided to write a book. He went on to write 100 pages of that book, and he was nearly finished with it. But then he found another branch of the big tree of life that he was already sitting on.

So, naturally, he left the process of writing that book and it never saw the light of day. His closest friends and relatives actually read chunks of the book, but they never knew how it ended.

He had decided to go to the music industry and learn how to play a guitar. He actually spent several years learning the instrument, but he did not really flesh out his skills. Eventually, he left it altogether.

Not that he wasn’t good enough, it was just that he was again starting to lose his focus. Several local bands invited him to play for them, but he refused them all, because he once again came to believe that his ‘purpose’ lied somewhere else.


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A lot of us make the same mistake in life. We are ambitious and want to achieve everything, but end up gaining nothing, because we do not have the courage to finish what we have set out to do.

The next time you start doing something, make sure that you finish it. Keep telling yourself this: an unfulfilled life is an unfinished life. A life where the value of every task is undermined because of your unwillingness to finish it.

If you make a habit of leaving things before you have properly finished them, then you can be sure that you will never achieve anything of worth in this life, because you can never give yourself the chance to properly bring them to a result.

A BIG HUG!

@chbartist

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In order not to stop and not to be discouraged, a person deceives himself - without completing one, he starts to do something else, which also leaves unfinished, and in new undertakings and new efforts he tries to draw fresh impulses and courage. So a person steals from himself and gradually becomes a larger and more indebted debtor of himself and everything around him.

interesting how you expressed that thought; and quite a good perception of that. Deceiving oneself must be one of the most difficult things to realize for oneself. It takes quite a bit of attention to see that. Although the phrase "so a person steals from himself" is a bit confusing. Can you clear that up? What is it that is being stolen? And how can I steal from myself? Am I not the one who is doing the stealing?

I want to say that this person does not receive enough of what a person experiences in the completed work, he steals these feelings from himself

Oh yes @chbartist, I totally agree with you that there is nothing worse than unfinished business. We may wish to do a lot, but if we finish at least one thing in our life, then life will always seem to us to be incomplete!

An excellent review and a very good motivation @chbartist, we all want new achievements and victories in our life, but it will only depend on us how our life path will be formed and if we leave our business unfinished, then our life path will not end either!

The positive person does not escape the problem, but rather it focuses on solving the problem, not the causes of the problem. He tries to find the appropriate solutions to it and learns from his mistakes. He sees any failure as an acquired experience in life. Failure is the beginning of the path to success.

sometimes fate smiles to many people, this is Tawfiq from God or for reasons we do not know and sometimes people go not to reconcile in many things either be their share or luck or so do not reconcile from God regardless of the reasons, here are here in this article expressions of misfortune

Thank you for sharing your thoughts. I love your post.
"Keep telling yourself this: an unfulfilled life is an unfinished life."
I will try this one to myself. It'll help me to get more motivation and willingness.

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Belief in God and what he put in the human capacities and potentials and talents, and this faith is the first step in the path of success where the human being given value for everything he does in life.

Always look for successful people who think positively and avoid losers who focus only on failed experiences in life. Successful people always nourish your mind with positive thoughts and provide you with success experiences.

Thanks @chbartist for this lovely post about life my opinion about life is this life is a preparation for exam which will be held after death so we should live life properly we should help others and always attitude should be positive but you are doing great things on steemit.

Really nice, i agree @chbartist! this is very motivational.