Because you can't afford to eat what you like now doesn't mean it won't be able to tomorrow. All things in this life have their own lifespan. Even the twice being born the same day won't die nor get rich at the same time. There is time for everything. Don't work using other people's time. Think of what you can do for yourself and others and not what others can do for you. Delay in life is never a denial just like you have said. You never have a wife now due situations of things, that does mean you won't later get one. We must work according to our time and space. Never too beef others or get too jealous unnecessary. Happiness is free and it takes good heart to embrace it.