Carrots, eggs and coffee beans

The young lady went to visit her mother and told her about her life and how difficult her life was. She didn't know what to do, she wanted to give up. I am tired of fighting. After the problem was solved, it seemed that a new problem had arisen. Mother took her to the kitchen. He is filled with three pots of water and then heated. Soon the pot boiled. In the first one he put the carrots, in the second he put the carrots, and in the last he put the ground coffee beans. He asked them to sit down and cook, without saying a word. After 30 minutes, it will turn off the burner. He took out the carrots and put them in the bowl. He took the eggs and put them in a bowl. Then he took out the coffee and put it in the bowl.
He turned to his daughter and asked, "Tell me what you saw?"
The young woman replied: "Carrots, eggs and coffee."
Mother came to her and asked her to smell the carrots. She did it and noticed that they were very soft.
Then he asked her to take an egg and break it. After removing the case, he looked at the hard egg. Finally, she asked him to have a cup of coffee. The girl smiled and enjoyed her rich aroma.
The girl asked: "Mom, what does this mean?"
His mother explained that all of these objects encountered the same adversity, that is, boiling water, but their reactions were different. Carrots come out of the water, hard and long lasting. However, after exposure to boiling water, it softens and weakens.
The eggs are very crisp. The thin outer layer protects the smooth interior. But after sitting in boiling water, the inside is hardened. However, coffee beans are an exception. After switching to boiling water, they changed the water.
"Who are you?" The mother asked her daughter.
"How do you react to adversity, are you carrots, eggs or coffee beans?" Consider it. What am I? Am I a carrot that looks strong but full of pain and adversity, but withered, softened and lost strength?
Am I an egg that starts with plastic?
Heart, but will it change with heat? I have a good spirit, but after death, rupture or financial difficulties, my appearance looks the same, but my heart is full of stiff heart and strong heart? Or maybe I like coffee beans? Beans actually change the hot water, causing the same pain.
When the water is heated, it gives off an odor and taste. If you are like beans, when the situation worsens, you will improve and change the situation around you.
When the working hours turn black and the test is most important, will the time rise to another level? How do you deal with adversity? Are you a carrot, an egg or a coffee bean?