Understanding… Is the key???

The main problem in life is that sometimes we don’t know what to do? If you are thinking just because to know what you want to do then you will only know the thing that you already know, you will never get anything new. You will only get what you are doing from your childhood and this will give you a temporary happiness. But NO, this will never solve your problems permanently, you have to think harder and simplify the complicated things.
Is it too difficult to understand the problem of life, if yes just write down when you are too confused. It is very simple take a page and make a line in between and divide it in two part write all your options 1,2,3…. And positive-negative of each option and just calmly look at it. Be with that piece of paper and try to explore all the consequences of each option. The main problem is that we never give enough time to see the options that we have with us and get agitated, frustrate and do not know what to do. SO what? There is a whole world around you and nobody knows what to do. If you really want to know just be with that problem.. this is the real meditation.
If in life, you have to make more effort to keep your relationship good, make money or to manage your life correctly this shows that you have shallow understanding. All the stress and depression in life is due to lack of understanding. Exception are always there, at time it is connected with physical thing also but in 99% of cases it is all because of understandings. Just work on your understanding because it is the only permanent solution, rest all things success, money and work are too small. These are just illusions life will never become better with this. The level of your understanding should be so high that you should be sure that there is nothing to do … no fear to loose.. Nothing to become.. to be happy. This is called absolute freedom, no power of world can stop me from doing anything.
Sometimes it happens that we get furious on small things which is not required this is the lack of control on ourselves. Only understanding can bring that control in us.