Well, we are all entitled to our opinion. I prefer our modern marriage. In those days, people marry without any blood group check and so bring birth to kids with sickle cell. Those days, women had little or no right to education. Their education was in the kitchen. Now, we have career women all over. Then any woman can be sent packing unjustly , she has no chance of fair hearing, now, a woman can sue her husband and the court will decide who takes costody of the kids and decide on terms of property sharing. That time , all the woman had was for her husband, now a woman has right to her money and property. Quite alright some women in our time are naughty but someone brought up well by those old mothers will do well in her husbands house. My fear is for mothers and wives of next generation. This generation women are still doing well.
As for relationship, my problem would have been sex before marriage we see in our world today. But without judging them and any disregard for God who hates fornication, i think the points i made here should matter as much as marrying as a virgin
Nice concept @onos. Kudos.