I have always wanted to argue with someone about this. Like you said Our God given free will rules pre-destination out. The concept doesn't make sense to me. I hear People saying so and so happened because someone was trying to run from his destiny. But the definition of destiny follows that whatever you're doing is your destiny. So if you're running from your destiny,it means it's your destiny to run from your destiny...Do you get? Don't mind me, I couldn't shut up