What a great husband you are! You know from my discovery, when a woman gets good support from her husband, she worries less and smiles more.
You have not only made yourself better with this attitude but your wife is also affected positively by it. That's the way it goes.
I just wish most men could actually take responsibility in assitisting their wives even if there are no kids yet.
African men especially have this mentality that their job is to put money on the table while the woman cooks and takes care of the house and kids. That's the worst mindset that puts women in a fix, and then u see them looking 10 years older in a short while after taking their vows.

If there's anything that kills a woman faster, it's unhappiness, stress and anxiety.

I personally do these things you talk about but I will take your advice and write them down instead of leaving them in my head.

I'll start to write down my list and God help me to actually get it all done in a day cos of my energy level(pregnant mom).
But in life, no excuse is worth it. If you actually want something done, just do it!
Thanks again for the post, I'm really encouraged and challenged. You are worth following!