I remember you telling me about your mother passing away already at the Oulu tournament in July 2013 when you and I met for the first time. That was a month or so before our family moved to Nastola near Lahti to live there for 10 months as the plan was. I have lost all three grandparents that I knew personally and one uncle but I have not yet lost either of my parents so I can only image how bad it must be.

Your mother was 60 when she died of cancer. I was very sorry to hear that when you told me about it almost five years ago. You should keep her memory alive and talk about her and your experiences together with your own children.