Wife Who Is Stressed Out Because Of Housework

in #parenting7 years ago (edited)

Hi all..

Writing this time will be long, this paper is inspired by the outpouring of the hearts of mothers in cyberspace.

**Problems that often occur in the household;** * A new mother ready to give birth, experience "baby blues" and then seem to want to throw her baby away.

  • There is also a mother who pinched her child till inert.

and many other things that happened.

The violence of a mother against a child is contrary to the idealism of a mother figure full of tenderness, affection, patience and other positive energies.

Many people directly judge that mothers who commit violence against their children will be called a cruel mother, or not a few people will call the mother like a demon, mental illness or others.

The commentators may be those who have never been a mother, or do not know what it's like to be a mother.

Had they ever known how stressful to be a mother, certainly would not arbitrarily such comments were made. A mother is one of the pillars of the household, which must be maintained mental sanity.

Why I say **"sanity"** .. Because only a healthy soul mother can bring peace in the household ..

Well, Can be A mother may have less faith when at home should continue listening to her children who hit only because of trivial things, some kind of his notebook crossed out his brother.

A mother may lose her gratitude when she is confused about having to pay the rented house bill.

A mother may become insincere when she saw her house neatly in the morning and turned into a ship broke in the day, while he himself has repeatedly stepped on lego scattered here and there.

A mother may become mentally weak when listening to inconvenience ranging from in-laws, sister-in-law, or even neighbors about how to raise her children.

I think all of that happened because it is common husband and wife to divide the household chores into husband to make a living and the wife take care of the house and children.

AND WAS WRONG ..! WRONG..!! VERY-VERY WRONG!!!.

Because of what : In the household, there is a child, resulting from the cooperation between husband and wife. Taking care of a child is a shared responsibility.

Child abuse by her mother Very likely happened because:

  • feeling tired.

  • Feeling alone.
    when husband Still can drink coffee with friends and wife are still busy with the affairs of diapers

  • Economic factors.

Make mothers, stop trying to be perfect mom. Because ** THERE WILL NOT BE A PERFECT MOTHER.**

Love: @cutyusra

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