RE: "Safe Spaces" are popular today, as if a person can hide from reality...
I pulled my kids out of public school eventually as well. Largely because of seeing these problems. I was not worried about the indoctrination aspect of school as my kids and I are close and talk a lot so they were getting an education from me that was counter to indoctrination. This also though could cause issues with the indoctrination system. :)
I didn't push any religion on my kids. I'd discuss religion with them at times, but I told them they were welcome to follow whatever religion they wanted (or not follow a religion) as long as they didn't push it on other people.
Only one of my children, my Middle Daughter Kelly, went the Christian route for awhile and was involved with groups and enjoying herself. Until they found out she was a Lesbian and they started attacking her for it. That was the end of her religious interest. The rest of my kids never really cared one way or the other about religion. My youngest daughter dated and hung around with some Buddhists a few years ago and she'd interact with them and participate some, but she doesn't really do that any longer either.
As far as killing... and violence. I practice the Non-Aggression Principle. That doesn't mean I will not defend myself. I'll defend my family and myself very violently if need be.
I really don't believe God concerns himself with people's sexuality, or choices is perhaps a better word. As long as they're adults. I believe He's more interested in how we treat one another. Most of the anti-gay stuff in the Bible comes from Paul who I understand was pretty conflicted sexually. I love God, but am not all that fond of religion. If you read Jesus message with an open mind you see that he doesn't push religion, in fact He had some serious issues with religion. When he says: "Upon this rock I build my church..." you have to look at the translation. By church He means a group of people not a building or religion.
I never pushed my kids toward any religion either. My AA sponsor told me all I need to know: 'There's a God, you ain't Him." I try to practice non-aggression at my age nobody messes with me, but God help them if they do. I'll defend myself or anybody else that's being attacked regardless of consequences. Jesus also said "There is no greater love than to lay down your life for your fellow man."