@mayb all good, these things happen and its all part of our growth. every experience, good or bad, has a lesson for us to learn both about others and ourselves... even about the reality we are experiencing.

We have free will and we choose to interact in ways we see as appropriate, these concepts may not always align with others... but to appreciate the day we must experience the night, and vice versa. Without these contrasts we can lack options and choice, the ability to make the distinction of what we prefer and wish to gravitate towards.