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I always wanted a grey kitty too... though I love them all :D
You wouldn't have too much fun with her - she is not the petting and cuddling type.

Ahah, I know that kind of behavior​!! So independent! She will change is "personality" when older, into a more friendly one, you'll see!

She will? When? She is already 4,5 :p

I believe it will happen when she reaches, es7-8-9 years old. My mother has a cat (female too) that wasn't pettable (not at all). We almost couldn't touch without hearing​ her complaining. But she became very friendly, looking for our petting ...do you think it was Alzheimer in cats!? ;)

Hahaha She forgot she doesn't like cuddles and petting? That's something.
Suzi is a little bit more petable than 2 years ago I think. But I still wouldn't call her a cuddly kitty.

I said she forgot because that's what I felt from visiting her from month to month. I'm not sure what was her daily evolution, just know I could pick her in my lap to pet...and I never thought that could be possible, NEVER!

Maybe it just took time to realize petting is nice and humans are good :)