Let me add something though. My older sister was once waitressing in New York for a year. She told me her route to work had a drug gang on 1 side of the road and an opposing gang on the other. I'm 7 years younger and more easily scared :) I asked her how she survived not being raped. She said she made friends with the one gang to protect her lol. Then she added words I have never forgotten. "Never think you will be raped/harmed etc and you never will be. Don't let it be part of your reality." Somehow that sunk in and stuck.