one of two false choices: either one has to believe absurd religious mythology or are accused of being infidel/evil, or one has to fully embrace atheism as ABSOLUTE fact without equivocation; without concession that there could be something we don't know about life and the nature of reality.

How right you are! Thes are false dilemmas.

This kind of either/or, us-against-them mentalitiy is ruining us.