...i worked in a closed ward and my old boss asked me: what is the main diff between a sane or insane person?

The sane person asks himself if hes insane while insane one is sure hes sane. :D

I guess this applys here too....u and me know whining wont get u anywhere and telling to some....well...it wont make much diff. They are the victims and yes, prolly nothing will change....