You can impact positively or negatively. It's up to you entirely.

in #r2cornell2 years ago


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This world is, in general, a hostile place. People tend to lie, steal, be cruel, disrespectful, unloving, and resentful, even when there is no reason for it.

People often do negative things on purpose, hoping to get an adverse reaction, even if unaware. How each of us reacts to negativity says a lot about our character.

Some negativity is perceived even if it is unintentional. It is the easiest to deal with, as it only takes a little thought to realize that we mentally attribute negativity to an action that is neither negative nor positive. We have all been in this situation many times. Reacting is inappropriate and incorrect and shows a weakness of character.

I have often reacted negatively unintentionally and still do from time to time, although personal growth has dramatically reduced this reaction.

Anger is a negative emotion. Nothing and no one can make you angry. Emotions are yours, and only you can control them.

It can be challenging, but it shows personal growth and strength of character.

What if it was intentional? Again, everyone has the right to control their feelings, even if someone deliberately tries to provoke anger or frustration.

How each of us reacts to negativity says a lot about us and the strength of our character. We can lash out in anger or show love, compassion, and consideration. It is a personal choice. No one else can make this decision because we are masters of our feelings.

If someone has problems and questions and behaves childishly, treat them with love and respect instead of confronting them or taking revenge.

Pray for them instead of reacting negatively. It's not always easy, but there is enough negativity that you don't have to reinforce it. Being positive is not only better, but it's also healthier.

Remember that you influence everyone. You can impact positively or negatively. How you affect them is entirely up to you.

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Hi, @globetrottergcc

You definitely have to modulate negativity and especially if it turns into anger. I liked reading you.

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